Welcome, Friends.

I am so grateful you are here. I hope that somewhere in this website you find the answers you are seeking, a good laugh you didn’t know you needed, and hope that may have felt lost. May you find all the abundance life has to offer you.

Say hi to Sriracha.

I’m Shelby,

My goal here is to share my story. The hard knock lessons, the mistakes and failures, the growth, healing, and fear I’ve overcome to get to this point of my life. My hope is that something I say will resonate with you, strike the fire within you to make the changes you have been dreaming of, the ones that feel miles away and out of reach. I want to change that for you, I want you to know that it’s all within reach. I want you to leave the overwhelm behind and find the progress and growth you desire. I want to make it easier for you. So please, look around. Find the answers you need, and if I’m as funny as I think I am you may just find some laughs along the way. This page is here to help, support and grow you into the best version of you there can be. I see you, I hear you, I love you.

This is my daughter, Sriracha. This little Queen is a year old Malinois mix. She came through Snuggle Stop Rescue and I failed terribly at the foster business and kept this beautiful little beast…follow more on Racha’s antics and adventures on our social media. Her own blog coming soonish…Between the Ears, A Sriracha Story.

Once upon a time, I trained dogs.

Once upon a time I also struggled really hard with my mental health, consistency, setting and keeping goals, self awareness, emotional regulation, and communication..to name a few. One day I was listening to a self help audio book when I realized, omg it’s just dog training but for people. I then set off to “train” myself to be a better human. This is where Unhinged Accountability was born.

Today, I am the healthiest I’ve ever been, the most self aware I’ve ever been, the most consistent I’ve ever been, and can communicate like a Motha F*&#er…most of the time…

I am still very much a work in progress, I always will be, but I am MILES from where I started thanks to the knowledge and observation skills I had around behavior change in dogs, and learning to apply those skills to people. This unique foundation set me on a path to help people change their behavior and create lasting change for the better.

Check it out, change your life, and be so much better for it.

Awareness creates choice.

Choice creates Accountability.

Accountability creates Behavior Change.

Behavior Change creates a new Identity.